4. Don't Move Out, Keep things Calm
Unless you are in a truly dire situation, that borders on abuse, try to keep tensions down. There are things that need to be taken care of before you leave your home. If you know that certain things trigger a fight, try to steer clear. If you are in a dangerous situation, then seek out help immediately and get to safety.
5. Get Legal Counsel from a Family Law Practice
Before you take action, please get counsel from a Law Office that focuses on family law in your state. Divorce is a multifaceted and complicated legal process. This is not the time to be thrifty and try to save a few dollars. In fact you will likely end up losing more of your assets if you wade into these waters without a clear plan.
A legal team will know all the pieces of the chess board, the moves right in front of you and the ones that will come later on. Our website has helpful resources on all these pieces, including alimony, equitable distribution, child custody/support, legal separation, and other topics that will help you grasp the basics. However, the truth is that each of these topics has their own set of paperwork and procedures that require legal guidance.